I really dislike people who go out of their way to hurt the feelings of others. I don’t understand why they do it, I don’t understand how it could benefit them in any way. Everyone says that people like this are always just really insecure about themselves, but it’s hard for me to accept that as an excuse. Everyone’s insecure about themselves, there isn’t one person on this planet who isn’t the least bit insecure about themself in some way. There are plenty of things that I’m insecure about, but you don’t see me going around trying to make other people feel awful about themselves because of it. I don’t understand how people can treat others like absolute crap 90% of the time, and then expect to be liked and included in return. Why would anyone want to include a person in their life who feels the need to criticize everyone else? Eventually people like this will realize that by acting this way, they’re pushing away everyone in their lives. And eventually, they’re not going to have anyone in their lives, because I know that when I meet people like I run away as fast I can, because I don’t need any more negative energy in my life than I already have.
Maybe I’m just saying too much.
But then again, what really is saying too much? I honestly think that sometimes we don’t say enough. Sometimes it’s hard for us to find the confidence to speak out about the things that really bother us. I’m definitely that way, sometimes no matter how strongly I feel about something, I don’t say anything about it because I am afraid of saying too much.
And I don’t think that saying too much is something to be afraid of.
